Roxy & Dave’s Tilden Park Wedding

I’m finally finishing blogging all of the weddings I worked in 2011! Look for them over the next few weeks here.

Roxy & Dave’s wedding was one of most pure-fun events that I got to coordinate last year. A food truck catered picnic in a regional park, complete with popsicles and killer sunglasses. Roxy and Dave were amazing to work with, and their friends and family came together to give their wedding a true community feeling.

Two great details I loved – wine glasses that doubled as escort cards (which is a great way to cut down on the amount of glassware you need to rent) and a postcard guest book – a family member was going to take all of the (stamped and addressed) postcards home with them and then mail them to the couple over the course of the next year. Rad.

Popsicles from Fat Face Popsicles (based in Davis) were the perfect dessert on what ended up being a blazingly hot Indian-summer day. Much less expected than wedding cake, and amazingly delicious.

Congratulations again you two!

photos: Erica Jackson Photography

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spring

it’s finally starting to feel like spring is here, and I am so ready for it that I can’t even stand it (although I actually only like spring because it means that summer is almost here. I live for summer, and literally start waiting for it to come back in October every year.) Spring also means that wedding season is getting into swing, so I have been swamped with work lately. That said, I’m so excited for all of this year’s weddings – they are going to be some great ones. Some other random things:

  • oh hey, I bet you wondered what my take on pre-nups was, didn’t you? (no, I don’t actually think anyone has wondered this.) well, I guest posted over on A Practical Wedding about it!
  • I’ve been on Pinterest for a while (you can find me here) but it’s getting a lot more fun as more people join. Email me if you want an invite!
  • my mom also wrote a post for APW, on money and my parents’ almost-40 year marriage. Check it out here!
  • I love these Rules Of Dinner from Dinner: A Love Story (which is a great blog, even if you don’t have kids or cook.) Personally I think they’re good rules even if you’re eating with a group of adults.
  • next week I’ll be in both Vegas (for a cousin’s wedding!) and New York (my sister is directing a play! free tickets here) and even though the travel schedule, especially on top of my work schedule, is making my head hurt a little right now, it’s going to be good to get out of my work-round-the-clock mode and see family and friends.

photo: the giant, many-decades old wisteria the grows along the deck at my parent’s house. every April it explodes with flowers, which is one of my favorite signs of spring.

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Karen & Stephen

I was going through some old photos of my parents last week, and came across this candid (taken by a family member – they only had a professional photographer at the church) from their 1972 wedding that I’d never seen before. Weren’t they adorable? My mom was 18 and my dad was 20 – they’ll celebrate their 40th wedding anniversary this August!

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colors

I was just looking through the photos from a wedding I coordinated last month and I had to share this one immediately:

More to come once I finish blogging all of the 2011 weddings!

photo: the always incredible Christina Richards

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probably the best wedding planning advice ever

Listen, smile, agree. And then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway.

-Robert Downey Jr.

also: photographic proof why more men should rock the tie-less suit

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Magenta World Map

These Are Things makes pretty awesome prints in general, but I’m really loving this World Map in Magenta:

Come on, how rad would that look above your fireplace?

photo: These Are Things

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Melody & Mark’s Brazilian Room Wedding

SO, finally time to catch up on weddings from this past fall! I’m going to try to blog all of the weddings from last year that I have professional photos from (and haven’t blogged already) over the next few weeks… going through them all again has been a great reminder of how much of a blast the second half of my 2011 wedding season was, which just makes me more excited for 2012. Let’s go!

Melody & Mark’s wedding was at the Brazil Room in Tilden Park on what had to have been one of the hottest days of the summer. When I first arrived the venue Melody & her mom were there, sitting on the floor of the giant, empty room applying their makeup. It was a pretty awesome way to start the day off.

Their ceremony was a great reflection of the two of them, and – instead of a bridesmaids & groomsmen, they had some of their close friends & family do a group reading of a poem, which was a really great way to include people close to them without having the big, traditional wedding party. They also self-solemnized the ceremony, which ended up being really powerful and intimate (I’ve seen it done before at Quaker weddings & have always loved it.)

Melody & Mark are both musicians, and so music played a big part in their wedding. They had two separate bands (one for the ceremony & cocktail hour, one for later in the night) and a DJ. Needless to say – it was awesome.

The dessert buffet (aside – I love dessert buffets at weddings. And I think that most guests prefer them to traditional wedding cake) was primarily made by Tara of Fox and Fawn, who happens to be Mark’s sister in law, but also happens to be a killer baker. Seriously – contact her about your wedding. Even if you’re not vegan. No joke. Dinner was catered by Trumpetvine Catering, who remain one of my favorite vendors to work with.

This photo below is a kind of perfect example of why the Brazil Room remains one of the most popular wedding venues in the Bay Area:

Thanks to Melody & Mark for having me be part of their wedding! it was truly such a pleasure.

photos: by incredibly talented Kristin Marie Photography

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solitude

“We need society, and we need solitude also, as we need summer and winter, day and night, exercise and rest.”

-Philip Gilbert Hamerton

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books I’ve read lately – January & February, 2012

some good stuff lately

  • Motherless Brooklyn by Jonathan Lethem. An incredibly compelling narrator. Super thin female characters. Enjoyable and fun overall – would be a great vacation read.
  • The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America’s Great Migration by Isabel Wilkerson. Epic is right – this is hugely long (and, admission: I did not finish it. although probably will at some point?.) A book club pick – fascinating look at a formerly under-reported part of America’s history.
  • An Object of Beauty by Steve Martin. This was a bookclub pick (other book club!). Overall fairly fun, a female lead that could only have been written by a man, and art references that could have been made by a foundation art student. Another good vacation read.
  • Red Hook Road by Ayelet Waldman. Waldman’s best book yet. Lovely look at human nature in the aftermath of tragedy.
  • The Uses of Enchantment by Heidi Julavits. Engaging, although rather disconcerting. I loved Julavits’ The Effect of Living Backwards, and while I didn’t love this one as much, I definitely enjoyed it.
  • It Sucked and Then I Cried by Heather Armstrong. The best blog-to-book… book that I’ve read. Armstrong has one of the strongest voices on the internet, and it carries through superbly.
  • Dream Work by Mary Oliver. I love Oliver, and this book contains some of my favorite of her work.
  • The Art of Fielding by Chad Harbach. I adored this book. A-dored. Seriously, go read it right now. Harbach is nothing short of brilliant – almost perfect example of everything the American Novel should be, and in my opinion well worth the 10 years he apparently spent writing & trying to publish it. (note: I love baseball, but I suspect that you would love this book even if you’d never seen a game/had no interest in the sport.)
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patterned bridesmaid dresses = giant yes

If you’re a friend or a client of mine, you probably know that I’m kind of super into patterned bridesmaid dresses right now. Some of my current favorite patterned dresses are from North Carolina based designer Whitney Deal, and I’m particularly into her Willow Dress:

Also – this pattern (and will someone please wear that center dress as their wedding dress? Hello, most perfect barbeque wedding get up ever):

But really, go browse around her site and check out all of the patterns and styles. Because they’re almost without exception excellent. Really, absolutely any of them would be perfect choices for a casual-side spring or summer wedding. And if someone out there dresses your bridesmaids in any of these (or better yet, wears one as a bride,) please send me pictures!

photos: Whitney Deal

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