Chicago! 2012

I got home last night from Chicago, which over the last few years has definitely earned its place as one of my favorite cities in the world. I was in town to visit my best friend Charlie, although he kept joking that I was just crashing with him while on a business trip. The photo of Charlie below is the only one I managed to capture snow falling in, and let me tell you, I got pretty excited about that snow, because my feeling is that if I’m going to be really cold, there might as well be snow around.

Charlie works in the specialty-coffee-industry (at least 80% of my rediculous-coffee-snobbishness can be directly attributed to him) and his killer home coffee bar was recently featured in the Chicago Reader.

The trip mainly consisted of large quantities of all of my favorite things: eating, walking, talking, and drinking (of coffee, tea, and booze.) Highlights included: getting majorly overly-spiced (in a good way) at Lao Hunan (pictured directly above), getting to sit in on an espresso QC meeting with Charlie & his coworkers (second photo from top), great meals with two different Chicago-based clients, and an amazing dinner at the home of Cindy & Julia of Crafty Broads, the guest list of which included the really lovely Chicago-based wedding photographers Christy Tyler and Emilia of Emilia Jane Photography (I also had drinks earlier in the week with Emilia and her adorable husband Wil at The Violet Hour, one of my favorite bars in the world.)

Thanks Chicago! Next time let’s maybe work on not being so cold.

(also, a note: I typically shoot film when I travel, and all of the photos in this post are unretouched SLR shots. I did not super love the black & white film I used, and need to remember what it was so that I don’t buy it again.)

posted in my life, travel | Comments closed

thank you to the Ninth Circuit

Awesome news today on the marriage equality front, as the Ninth U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals ruled that California’s infamous Prop 8 was unconstitutional:

Proposition 8 fails to advance any rational basis in singling out gay men and lesbians for denial of a marriage license. Indeed, the evidence shows Proposition 8 does nothing more than enshrine in the California Constitution the notion that opposite- sex couples are superior to same-sex couples. Because California has no interest in discriminating against gay men and lesbians, and because Proposition 8 prevents California from fulfilling its constitutional obligation to provide marriages on an equal basis, the court concludes that Proposition 8 is unconstitutional.

You can read more about the ruling here. The fight is unfortunately still far from over in this country, but every step we make towards true equal civil rights for all Americans is one that should be celebrated.

Photo: Justin Sullivan / Getty Images

posted in marriage equality | Comments closed

catching up

some random thoughts:

  • I love this piece on how to write a thank you note (via Mighty Girl)
  • I spent this past weekend outside of Healdsburg on retreat (I’m on the vestry, which is similar to the board of directors, at my church) at The Bishop’s Ranch, one of my favorite places in the world (photos above.)
  • I’m finally finishing decorating my office and I’m pretty sure that this print, by my friend the lovely Lisa Congdon, is going to need to make an appearance.
  • these were some of my favorite shoes last summer, and they’re finally back in stock. Cute and comfortable enough to wear for an entire day of walking around a city. (oops, link was a zappos vip link – fixed now!)
  • oh hey, I’m heading to Chicago for a few days on Wednesday! I hate cold weather a lot, but my work schedule for the year dictated that I make my annual visit in February. Suggestions for excellent indoor activities are appreciated.
posted in shoes, things I love | Comments closed

chocolatish peanutish cookies

When I don’t feel that I can really help someone in a concrete way, I end up baking a lot – it’s a particular kind of stress release that makes me feel like I’m at least helping… in thought. A good friend of mine is in middle of what’s turned out to be a long hospital stay, and I’ve turned into somewhat of a cookie baking machine – I think I’ve made about 30 dozen cookies in the last ten days (most of them have gone to the nursing staff at the hospital.) I don’t eat chocolate, and so when I got a request for “peanutish chocolatish” cookies I put out a twitter ask for suggestions. My friend Kate came through with the recipe below (chocolate cookies pictured above) which is one she adapted from a Hershey’s recipe, and I’ve now gotten three separate requests for a copy of it. So while I haven’t eaten them myself, I have it on multiple authorities that they’re great. They’re also very, very easy. Recipe below the jump!

Read More »

posted in food and drink | Comments closed

on books

So, I like to read. A lot*. And I know that a lot of people reading this blog do too, because I frequently have real-life conversations about the books I’ve just posted about (why don’t you all ever comment? : ) So, I thought I’d write a little about how I find the books that I read, and how I keep track of them.

The main ways I find books are:

  • recommendations from friends & family whose taste I like
  • recommendations from authors whose work I like (many authors keep book logs, write reviews, or mention books they like in interviews. Pay attention.)
  • recommendations from bookstore employees (people who work in bookstores are almost always big readers. If you tell them what you like, they can almost always give you spot on recommendations. I’ve discovered some of my favorite books & authors this way.)
  • Reviews, specifically from The New York Times.
  • mindlessly browsing in local used book stores. In Oakland, Walden Pond Books is my favorite (as well as having been my closest neighborhood bookstore for most of my adult life.) I’ve discovered amazing things completely randomly by reading the backs of book covers while killing time.

So, how do I keep track of all of these books when I hear about them so that I actually read them later? Amazon. Let me say this: I am big, big, big supporter of local book stores. I’m also a big fan of buying books used, because I buy so very many books, and try as I might the library just doesn’t do it for me (I’m a giant believer of the importance of libraries to local communities. But I like to highlight books, fold down pages, re-read, and lend them out. Borrowing just doesn’t really work for me.)

Enter: the Amazon wishlist and my iPhone. Whenever I hear about a book that I want to read, I go into the Amazon app on my iPhone, and add it to my wishlist. Then, whenever I happen to be near a bookstore, and have some time to browse, I can pull up my wishlist, remind myself of what I’ve recently heard about that I want to read, and look for it in the shelves. Win. I do also order books from Amazon – mainly new releases that I’m dying to read so much I can’t wait for them to come out in paperback (if money were no object I would buy everything locally, and in hardcover.)

It’s probably worth noting some of my all-time favorite books while we’re here: Angle of Repose by Wallace Stegner, Bel Canto by Ann Patchett, A Kind of Flying by Ron Carlson, and The Road by Cormac McCarthy.

Any other tips for good ways to find books to read? Any books you want to recommend that I read?

*In fact, I often joke that my only non-work related hobbies are reading and my social life. Not really a joke. And I’m not sure how legitimate of a hobby “my social life” is.

posted in books, things I love | Comments closed

forget-me-nots and a skull

One of my clients has one of the best less-than-traditional engagement rings I’ve ever seen. I mean, take a look at this:

Gorgeous, no? The eyes are rubies (that actually do match perfectly, the difference in color is just from the lighting in the photos the bride and I took quickly this weekend) and there are tiny tiny diamonds in the center of the flowers:

The ring was custom made for her by Bay Area jeweler Leslie Hyman of Rue 22 Jewelry. It’s a modification of an existing design of Hyman’s, and literally could not be more a perfect ring for this particular bride. Also: I kind of want one really badly?

Rue 22 Jewelry has an etsy shop, or you can contact Leslie directly if you’re interested in custom work.

photos: courtesy Beth Morris

posted in jewelry, wedding | Comments closed

sequin flats

I like sparkly shoes more than almost anything. If you’ve seen me at a wedding in the last few months it’s likely I’ve been wearing these:

They’re the KRISSS from Steve Madden in gold (gah, why do so many things I like have such terrible names?) So sparkly. So comfortable. Which is key for work shoes for me (weddings usually mean 8-14 hours straight of being on my feet, and while I refuse to wear un-pretty shoes just because I’m working, I also really dislike being uncomfortable.) I already bought myself a backup pair for when my first pair inevitably gets beyond the point of repair, but if I hadn’t I’d definitely be taking advantage of their current half-off status.

A third pair would be silly, right?

posted in shoes | Comments closed

books I’ve read lately – December, 2011

I’m giving up regular TV watching again, so these lists should be longer again starting this month (I’m so not judgey about people who watch TV, it’s just that TV is definitely the enemy of pleasure reading in my life. And in the end reading makes me, personally, much happier than watching TV does.)

posted in books | Comments closed

on Travel

Over the holidays, someone in my family commented that I travel a lot, and everyone else immediately chimed in to agree. To which I cried foul, because, well, I really don’t think of myself as someone who travels that much. Last year I made one trip to Chicago, and two to New York. The year before was about the same, plus a trip to Mexico. However, the comment resulted in making me want to be someone who travels a lot (hilariously, because it wasn’t meant as one, I chose to take it as a challenge.)

So – a goal for this year is to spend at least one night a month in another city. Because I’m far from rich, I’m going to allow work trips to other parts of California to count, which my spring and summer are already fairly full of. And when I really started looking at my calendar I’m almost there! Current trips I already have planned for this year include:

  • February: Chicago
  • April: Las Vegas & New York
  • May: Solvang & Sonoma (and possibly New York again)
  • June: Sonoma
  • July: Napa, and hopefully Longbarn
  • August: Half Moon Bay
  • September: Sonoma
  • October: New York
  • November: New York (yes, again!) & Philadelphia

Which means I need to get myself somewhere this month and make sure to plan something for next December. In March I’m hoping to fit in a long weekend in LA, because it’s been far too long (at least two years) since I’ve been down there.

I’d like to note that all of this is domestic travel, and the majority of it is local travel (more than one but less than three hours in a car = local travel.) My poor passport is feeling very neglected these days, but it’s unfortunately looking like it’s going to stay that way for a while…

So, some objective opinions – do I travel a lot? Do you want to travel more? Where are the top destinations on your list of placed to go (one of mine, oddly, is Antarctica, and has been for more than a decade.)

photo: from my last trip to New York, via my iPhone

posted in my life, travel | Comments closed

poured votives

just a little PSA to say that this is one of the the best prices I’ve seen for poured-in-glass candles around (poured-in is easier than separate candle & glass by nature of less moving parts. they also tend to burn longer. whoever is setting up and lighting your candles will thank you for using them.) You can get 96 candles for less than $0.70 each after shipping. So if you’re looking for bulk candles for your upcoming wedding/party, I’d suggest jumping on this one…

photos: save-on-crafts (thanks to Tracy for the site recommendation!)

posted in decorations, parties, wedding | Comments closed