Kate & Phil’s Sonoma Eclipse Wedding

Kate and Phil had a destination wedding in Sonoma, one of my favorite places in the world. If you’ve never been to Healdsburg, put it on your list – it’s an almost painfully adorable town. The wedding itself was up the road at Trentadue Winery, who make some of the best port around, and have a gorgeous event venue on site.

But beyond being gorgeous, Kate & Phil’s wedding was really marked by how thoughtful Kate and Phil are as a couple, and how apparent this was in every single part of the day. This spring’s partial solar eclipse took place during their cocktail hour, and the two of them bought eclipse glasses for all of the guests and the staff – let me tell you, Nature makes for great entertainment. How great are these photos?

The night ended in an epic dance party – this was definitely a crowd who knew how to have fun!

Congratulations again you two!

photos: the darling Emily Ivey of Bliss Photography

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let the stars fall where they may

I just realized that I didn’t update this blog once the entire month of August. I generally don’t get too personal here, but this summer has been hard. Work has been amazing (so, so many good weddings to share) but consuming (I’m averaging 70-80 hours a week, and am currently in the middle of seventeen weekends of weddings in a row) but for the most part, life outside of work has felt like one hit after another, for me and for far too many of the people who make up my life.

I got back last night from spending the holiday weekend (after doing a Friday wedding) at my family’s beach house, with a group of friends both old and new, from many different walks of my life. I didn’t even realize how much I needed the break – both from work, and from how intense this summer has been personally – until I was driving home, my hair still smelling faintly of bonfire from the night before, sand mixing into the already-total dirtiness that is my car mid-wedding-season. This beach, more than anywhere else, has always been able to make me feel lighter, and it was especially noticeable this weekend, especially noticeable after the extreme heaviness of the last few weeks.

But despite how hard things have been at times recently, they have also really allowed me to appreciate how lucky I am, as hard things are wont to do. Lucky that I have a job that I truly adore, doing work that feels meaningful; that I have some of the most amazing, most incredible friends in the world, people who help lift me up when I cannot do it by myself; and that I have a family who is able to support each other as best as we know how through unbelievably awful things happening.

The quote referenced in the title and photo on this post is from a 2009 essay by Marget Gunther for the New York Times, and reads in full:

“It doesn’t seem fair that we can look back and connect the dots in life, and see what led from that to this, but we cannot look forward and anticipate in any way what constellation today’s dots will form in the vast space ahead of us. I guess it’s just best to assume that heaven is right here, right now, and let the stars fall where they may.”

I wrote it down three and a half years ago when I first saw it, and it came back into my head last night, driving across a bridge with the windows down. The space ahead is always vast, and, try as we might, we can’t line up the dots. So remember to feel lucky, and to always tell people that you love them.

(also, if I owe you an email, look for it in the next week, I’m finally getting caught up.)

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Kay & Brian’s Field & Barn Wedding

Kay & Brian got married at Coquelicot Vineyards* on the edge of the town Solvang, CA, which has to be one of the most adorable and one of the oddest places around – it’s a Danish theme town established in 1911, and is totally worth a visit if you’re ever in the Santa Ynez Valley. I had a blast spending the weekend there.

Beyond being a total blast, Kay & Brian’s wedding was really pretty, in large part due to all of the work that Kay and Brian had done. One of my favorite details was that they made button name tags for all of their guests – one button with their first name, and then a second button with a nickname or other inside-joke phrase on it. They put them in stemless wineglasses that doubled as both favors and placecards, and then guests got to wear their buttons (and hopefully remember each others names a little better!) Fun, funny, and pretty, which is combination that sums up the whole wedding as well as Kay and Brian themselves.

There’s a reason barn weddings have become rather iconic – they’re large spaces that work well for big events, but are much less corporate and cold feeling than a banquet hall. I mean, who doesn’t want to go to a dance party in a barn?

Congratulations again you two! If your marriage is even a fraction as much fun as your wedding was, you’re going to be in fantastic shape : )

photos: Tyler Branch Photo

*unfortunately Coquelicot is not doing weddings after 2012

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Sophie & Ouma’s Cinqo de Mayo Wedding

Sophie is a life-long friend of mine (our moms are best friends from college, and she and her sister are more like cousins to me than friends) and it was such a total joy to get to be a part of their wedding – they’re simply one of the best couples I know.

May fifth happened to be the date that worked best for everyone involved and was available at the venue they wanted (the Piedmont Community Hall) – so we decided to run with it. It worked especially well because Sophie’s family has a long standing love of Mexico and Mexican iconography, and come on, who doesn’t love bright colors, Mexican food and margaritas?

After some worry about if their visas were going to come through in time, Ouma’s parents were able to make the trip from Kenya, and Ouma worked to get their DJs some Kenyan music – I think it’s safe to say that the dancing was definitely one of the highlights of this party.

Congratulations again you two – I’m so happy that you finally made Ouma an official part of the family! Love you both!

photos: by the lovely Allison Andres

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Brandi & Joe’s City Hall / Art Gallery Wedding

Brandi and Joe got married in the morning in a small ceremony at San Francisco City Hall followed by champagne. Brandi had part of her mother’s dress remade into a new dress, which – can you even imagine a more perfect dress for a City Hall ceremony? The gorgeous flowers were by Natalie at Clementine.

Brandi & Joe really wanted their reception to just be a big party, and they totally rocked it. We were able to talk a gallery, Steven Wolf Fine Arts, into doing their first ever private event rental, and then talk the building owner into renting us the lot next door, and… magic. Which is also the word that could be used to describe the party dress that Brandi wore.

Permits from the city let us block the street parking for food trucks – Roli Roti, Kung Fu Tacos, and a churro cart, and a Mariachi Band came to entertain the guests for the first hour. There was no scheduling to the reception – just food, a bar, and then dancing, dancing, and more dancing, courtesy of DJ Teeko (with The Flashdance’s background visuals projected in the room of the gallery normally used to show video pieces. perfect.)

Congratulations again you two!

photos: the lovely duo of Paco & Betty

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Ruchi & Dave’s HinJew Extravaganza

Ruchi and Dave’s Hindu/Jewish (a culture blend nicknamed “HinJew” by the couple) was a blast. Held at the San Francisco Design Center Galleria, the multi-part day was actually the culmination of a larger multi-day celebration.

The day started with the Baraat, and Dave riding in on horseback (well, actually processing around the block but it achieved the idea.) Fancy horses officially make everything more awesome.

The baraat ended with Ruchi’s family welcoming Dave’s family with sybols of food, flower garlands, and rice. It was and amazingly touching moment for everyone involved.

Ruchi and Dave spent a lot of time and did a lot of hard work putting together a ceremony that blended both of their cultures – Dave’s family Rabbi led the majority of the ceremony, huppah poles were decorated with marigold garlands (both Hindu and Jewish wedding ceremonies traditionally use canopies – in a Hindu ceremony it’s called a mandap, in this case the canopy symbolized both) both Saptapadi (Hindu seven steps around a fire, led at this wedding by a close friend of Ruchi’s family) and Sheva Brachot (the Jewish seven blessings), as well as some of the most heartfelt and amazing vows I’ve ever heard. I definitely cried at this one.

The Galleria is a stunning space, and instead of trying to compete with that when it came to centerpieces, Ruchi & Dave went simple and used a cake or a pie. Seeing the guests wandering to different tables to see (and swap) all of the flavors available was definitely a highlight.

However, the real highlight besides the ceremony was the amazing dance party that happened. Kicked off with a truly raucous and joyful hora, the floor stayed full all night.

It was one of those nights where everyone was just too full of joy to do anything but dance.

Congratulations again you two! I’m so glad that I was able to be a part of this day.

photos: the always rad Emily Takes Photos – see her blog post on the wedding here, and see the wedding featured on Offbeat Bride here.

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Lauren & Brian’s Cartoon Art Museum Wedding

OK, this is really one of my favorite weddings ever. Partially because Lauren & Brian are rad, and their wedding really, really reflected them in a way that is hard to do. And partially because – food truck catered (the awesome Roli Roti) wedding in a Cartoon Museum with rainbow table cloths, runners made out of comics and silly putty centerpieces? Not to mention bouquets made out of comic book pages by the bride? I mean, how could you NOT love it?

The night ended with the best impromptu dance party ever – completely unplanned, that ended up going until I finally had to kick everyone out a little before midnight so that we could finish cleaning the venue and let the staff close up!

Congratulations again you two! (ps. we need to grab some drinks again soon!)

photos: the crazy talented Gabriel Harber Photography

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Liz & Guy’s Coastal Wedding

Liz and Guy got married in Pacifica on what turned out to be a gorgeous day in February. The tiny Pedro Point Firehouse near the water is one of the best deals around (plus – llamas across the street!).

I loved the multicolored bridesmaid dresses and shoes, and the gift packs for the kids in attendance included fairy wings & coloring books, which made for lots of adorable little girls happily entertaining themselves.

Plus, their bowling after party was obviously one of the best ideas ever that everyone should consider stealing.

You can see more of Liz & Guy’s wedding over on A Practical Wedding (where it was featured as a Wordless Wedding.) Congratulations again you two!

photos by: the fantastic Christina Richards Weddings

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Happy Friday!

It’s summer! Which is both my favorite time of year (I start waiting for it to roll around again the second it ends every year) and my busiest time of year. I have so many good weddings coming up in the next five months that I can’t wait. In the meantime, some miscellany:

photos: from my Instagram feed, just a few of my favorite things about summer: baseball, layer cake eaten outdoors, homemade pasta, cherries, neon nailpolish too bright to photograph, pony farms

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A Baby Shower for Alissa

I planned Alissa and Alex’s wedding last year, and I was so thrilled to find out this winter that she’s pregnant with their first baby, who’s due in mid-July.

I’ve known Alissa since I was seventeen (I dated a close childhood friend of hers, and she and I stayed friends after he and I broke up, although it’s worth noting that he and I are still friends as well) and it has been a total joy for me to have had her in my life for the last eleven years. I’m pretty sure I told her that I wanted to throw her a shower approximately 30 seconds after she told me she was pregnant – what can I say, I really love parties.

I’m not a big fan of booze at baby showers (it just seems… slightly mean to drink when the guest of honor can’t?) so we settled on afternoon tea. My parents have an amazing garden, and my fingers were crossed that the weather would be nice enough to hold the party there, and I totally lucked out. The day was unseasonably warm and gorgeous for April, and it ended up being more of an “iced tea” party than a traditional one.

We kept things relatively small (20 guests) and simple  – no games, just eating, socializing, and gift-opening. I didn’t want to go too traditional (aka cutesy) on the color scheme or decor, so ended up with grey, blue, and orange, with touches of gold. The dinosaurs were way too much fun to make, and were a big hit (many of them were gone by the end of the shower – they ended up acting as impromptu favors.)

It was really lovely to spend time with a group of women who were all invested Alissa & Alex’s lives. I cannot wait to hold their baby boy later this summer!

all photos: Emily Takes Photos. You can see more pictures from the shower, as well as some maternity shots of Alissa, on Emily’s blog.

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